That is what they say. They lie. The society wants you to stay in your relationship even it becomes a relationshiT especially when you are a man. Hence the illusion is fed as a lesson. Remember if it is love, it won't die. The marriage can end, the relationship can break, the sex can hurt or become emotionless but love stays the same. Like a specter that doesn't age. So first or two hundred and sixty ninth, it won't just die.